First up the ubiquitous T. urvilleana I have tried this in the ground as in this picture but although the winter doesn't kill them here they never get big enough the following year to flower so I stick to pots and bring them into the Conservatory for the winter and they normally reward me with flowers right through to April.
Tibouchina urvilleana 080 by charliepridham, on Flickr
Tibouchina urvilleana 007 by charliepridham, on FlickrThe second species I have is a trickier plant to grow and that is T. grandifolia, the flower spikes are much different, it is sadly more tender and does not survive winter outdoors here. If I remember to cut it back and repot it lives up to its specific name of grandifolia with wonderful large leaves
Tibouchina grandifolia by charliepridham, on Flickr
070 by charliepridham, on FlickrLastly the third species I grow is by far the easiest as it can stay out all winter and flowers reliably every year and that is Tibouchina paratropica. Although if you protect the plants you will get a woody shrub (all be it an untidy one!) I find it behaves as a herbaceous perennial here
tibouchina paratropica 020 by charliepridham, on FlickrWhile over in California we saw several clearly different sorts but have never seen anything other than those above here in the UK